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Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha

Elderly mother no longer has the capacity to make financial decisions-- please help My mother will be 68 in July. I'm 30 and an only child. My father is 76 with alzheimers and starting to slow down severely. Ever since she married my father she never really had to pay bills. She always had an obsession/addiction with spending money and shopping since I can remember. She has been on social security for the last 6 or 7 years. ​ I have another post describing my backstory in more detail, but the main issue is that she is absolutely obsessed and fixated on attempting to get a 'loan' by any means necessary. My parents still have a mortgage of around 190k on their home, which is in somewhat rough shape, and probably $50-150k in credit card debt for the two of them combined. Last year she started doing gift card scams and basically throwing her social security check away every other month to these scammers. She continued on through the rest of the year and even convinced (and one month straight up took money from him) my father to give him money so she could get her big payday, totaling to $4300 (in 3 months time) and they missed 3 mortgage payments. I feel awful for my parents because these people now call their home phone all day, every day, according to my elderly father with dementia; he is very fed up with it. and they call mom's cell phone non stop it seems like. everytime I am with her these people are calling her. ​ I have control of my father's SS benefits now ($\~1600), they go to my bank account and I have control, and we can slowly catch up on the mortgage ($1050). But the problem is that she is getting \~$800 a month that she has been throwing away. In January she gave it all away, in February the scammers cashed a check for around 500 and she closed her account with that bank and got $200 out and then immediately bought a gift card, and this past March she sent her whole check away in a money order to some guy. ​ I ha